Your stepdad has a similar look to my dad who I lost 12 years ago.
Your pain is exactly what I went thru
My advice: cancel the pop up
Be there with family
You’ll never get this time back where you’ll sit snd reminisce which is very therapeutic.
Your (step)dad was an important person in your life and please take the time to grieve, keep writing, share his stories, laugh, cry, go thru photos, etc.
Hug, and then cry again! Our prayers are with you and your mom and your family!
I’m so sorry Zibby for this sudden loss. As a literary person you may be able to accept this as a comfort. I just finished My Friends by Fredrik Backman. The characters have all suffered the loss of loved ones and when the younger character questions how to deal with these deaths, these losses, the response feels so comforting to me. Their loved ones’ presence is often tangibly felt. A glimpse of him rounding a corner. Seeing him in a favorite sweater. Perhaps her scent in a cafe. The survivor labels that as them saying “peek-a-boo”, sending messages from Heaven. It may sound trite or even ridiculous, but if it allows you some sort of peace, who cares? Again, my condolences to you and your mom, your kids…
And the hostages will return. And life throws us everything without perfect timing. 💙❤️
So so sorry. You describe your feelings so beautifully. We usually say “no words”, yet you are able to write about the depth of your pain and your experience beautifully.
Crying along with you from an RV in a field in Kansas, surrounded by dogs and horses. Losses like these feel impossible. He was clearly one of a kind — as was your love for him. Thank God he didn’t suffer. I once heard that people with the best karma go fast. I don’t know if that’s true, but it feels right here. xo 🙏
no advice, just Lemon Cupcakes, which is what I give out when people are in a hard place. My dad has dementia right now, so it is as if we have lost him.
Im so sorry for this sudden loss of Howard, whom I feel like I know a little better with your writing. Sounds like an amazing man and he will be truly be missed. May his memory be a blessing to you always. You are allowed to grieve and it will take time. Be there with your family- family is everything!
Your stepdad has a similar look to my dad who I lost 12 years ago.
Your pain is exactly what I went thru
My advice: cancel the pop up
Be there with family
You’ll never get this time back where you’ll sit snd reminisce which is very therapeutic.
Your (step)dad was an important person in your life and please take the time to grieve, keep writing, share his stories, laugh, cry, go thru photos, etc.
Hug, and then cry again! Our prayers are with you and your mom and your family!
I’m so sorry Zibby for this sudden loss. As a literary person you may be able to accept this as a comfort. I just finished My Friends by Fredrik Backman. The characters have all suffered the loss of loved ones and when the younger character questions how to deal with these deaths, these losses, the response feels so comforting to me. Their loved ones’ presence is often tangibly felt. A glimpse of him rounding a corner. Seeing him in a favorite sweater. Perhaps her scent in a cafe. The survivor labels that as them saying “peek-a-boo”, sending messages from Heaven. It may sound trite or even ridiculous, but if it allows you some sort of peace, who cares? Again, my condolences to you and your mom, your kids…
And the hostages will return. And life throws us everything without perfect timing. 💙❤️
How well you capture pain and love in the same breath. Keep taking deep breaths, Zibby.
So sorry for the pain each of you is enduring, and the great loss you are each feeling.
May your dear stepdad's memory be for a blessing.
Wishing your family comfort at this difficult time.
So so sorry. You describe your feelings so beautifully. We usually say “no words”, yet you are able to write about the depth of your pain and your experience beautifully.
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending a big hug to you, your mom and whole family 🤍
Oh, Zibby. My heart breaks for you and your family. This is a beautiful tribute to Howard and the power of love.
My stepmom was amazing...Canadian and not Jewish
Crying along with you from an RV in a field in Kansas, surrounded by dogs and horses. Losses like these feel impossible. He was clearly one of a kind — as was your love for him. Thank God he didn’t suffer. I once heard that people with the best karma go fast. I don’t know if that’s true, but it feels right here. xo 🙏
Beautiful. May his memory be for a blessing.
Warmest condolences. May Howard’s memory be a blessing and may the continued sharing of wonderful memories help keep his spirit alive.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you, your mom, and your entire family thoughts, prayers, and love during this difficult time.
no advice, just Lemon Cupcakes, which is what I give out when people are in a hard place. My dad has dementia right now, so it is as if we have lost him.
So very sorry for your loss. May his memory be for a blessing.
His memory is a blessing. May he visit often in your dreams. Sending all the good vibes on Earth to your mom and family. I'm so sorry.
Im so sorry for this sudden loss of Howard, whom I feel like I know a little better with your writing. Sounds like an amazing man and he will be truly be missed. May his memory be a blessing to you always. You are allowed to grieve and it will take time. Be there with your family- family is everything!
Sending you so much support from afar! I'm so sorry for your loss.